Cruel to be kind: Check how you treat your interns
Posted On: February 22nd, 2010 @ 11:49AM
By A.L. Harris
Freelance publicist and writer
The story of this post today is how NOT to treat an intern, and I write this from two perspectives-
1. The perspective of a 4 time ex-intern and
2. The perspective of “Hey, I just hired my very first intern” !
To be honest I just completed an internship not but 3 weeks ago, I terminated myself because I knew that the position was going nowhere. I figure if the person you are working for, and supposed to be learning from, stops calling you all together, and when you try to check in just to make sure things are “OK” and “status quo” {yet you still receive no answer} then it’s time to jump ship and go somewhere else; if that is how communication is handled in the beginning it only stands to reason that once the person gets to know you better and feels more comfortable, it will only get worse. After this past internship, regarding my age {29},education level {MBA}, and having had considerable professional positions including Freelance PR & Marketing projects, I figured it was time to stop stalling and go it alone, instead of backpacking from one non-paid position to another. Yes, I gained knowledge from this last internship, but nothing that I wouldn’t have learned on my own anyway. I can do that at age 29, “go it alone”, but those who are still in school and still in their teens or early 20’s probably won’t be willing to take that leap, so they stick with the internships, awesome!
Now, to my point. I always read lists and lists of things that interns should and should not do while on the job, but how come I never see lists and lists of things that employers should or shouldn’t do?
In my estimation, as much as you see companies {large and small} looking for interns, the unpaid, coming-of-age, masses who flock to these positions should be noted as importantly as a regular paid employee and treated almost the same {yes, almost…they are still interns so more grunt work will be envolved, but let me finish…}. Interns are/can be the backbone or eb and flow of a company, they help ease the stress and strain that would most likely be put on an overworked regular employee, and for that reason alone interns should be applauded. This post is not written to say that their aren’t thousands upon thousands of companies out there that don’t treat their interns with grace, but for the few who don’t…this is just for you! Here is my list of 7 things employers should or should not do to their interns, and why.
1. BE KIND!!
I make this #1 because it is truly to the benefit of the employer to be kind to their interns, lest they find themselves outed on their horrible habits and practices by word of mouth {what? you think interns don’t talk?} and/or social media…check out sites like InternshipRatings.com. PLUS, it’s just the right thing to do. Kindness is not synonymous with weakness, so it’s OK to say “Hi” and smile or maybe get your intern some coffee once and a while.
2. Be Open
I was about to say “be flexible” but in all honesty, they are interns so they should bend to your schedule, that’s why they are there. BE OPEN means, when they are around, and you see they might be having trouble, or they come to you to ask a question…BE OPEN…just like that. I do not believe in interns having to be afraid to ask anything…save that for the employees who have paychecks to lose and who should already know this stuff, or know several ways to figure it out. Interns are there first to learn and then to help, so help them help you.
3. Don’t involve interns in petty arguments or gossip
I can’t tell you how awkward it feels to come into an internship and immediately feel compelled to have your guard up against a CLIENT or employee that you’ve never even heard of before, much less met in person, to formulate your own opinion. Yes, do give interns the skinny on what clients do and don’t like, how to address and greet clients, even how many lumps of sugar they take in their tea…but leave out how clients are hating on other clients, who is a back stabber, who had sex with who etc. If you just can’t help yourself, at least wait until after your intern has had their first day on the job!
4. Give interns “Controlled Choices”
Of course you have a business to run, NOT a daycare…understood. It is also understood that you do not have time or money to waist if you give an intern the controls on a project and they mess up…but, it happens! To avoid this, give your interns “Controlled Choices”. Controlled Choices are when you know what the outcome will be of either path the intern chooses, and both paths are covered, but you let THEM decided on which path. Like my mother used to do when my siblings and I were children, she would make dinner and make 2 different vegetables, the point was, we were going to eat vegetables and get the nutrients we needed whether we liked it or not, but we had a choice in which vegetable we wanted to consume…that way everyone wins!
5. C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-I-O-N
I cannot stress this enough…COMMUNICATION! Everyone else swears by it, why shouldn’t you! Yes, it does give interns a feeling of accomplishment when they are able to figure out a cryptic message like “Email Sharon”. Sharon, who??? Do they have a last name, are they in the company directory, is it a client, a cat, WHAT!?When they figure it out, it’s great, but it could help save them the angst and probably save you some man hours if you say “Email Sharon Smith from Company X, tell her to call me”. Short, fast and to the point…no hand holding involved, just simple communication.
6. Teach
No, the office is NOT a classroom, but there is more to the phrase “on the job experience” than just 4 words. You can teach while still going about your day. Many of your interns are in school or have at least been through high school so they know how an open forum works…so let your office be one. Let them talk it out, give them a project and let them find their way through it, just like taking a practical. Interns are smart {more often than not} with a little help they can figure things out, but be sure to add on a little extra info while they work, so they can take that knowledge back to the classrom or use in their next work experience.
7. Understand that Slavery {in America anyway} is over
Since they are old enough to be just out of reach of child labor laws, and since they signed on as an “intern” for a company they would probably die for if someone asked them to, interns kind of slip through the cracks when it comes to knowing the difference between interning and running a free maid service. Most, will do anything because the company is so fabulous they don’t want to ruin their chances of getting a letter of recommendation, or the next big project, or even a job! Sooo, Employeerrrs, knowing that the majority of your interns have that mentality it is then YOUR job as the “matured professional” to act on your professionalism, and not exploit them! Sure, long hours and grunt work are, and should always be a part of an internship, most interns already know this going in, it’s how you prepare for the real thing, because the work doesn’t get easier once you start getting paid for it! So, yes, send them to go get coffee a few times for 12 people down the street in the rain, and yes, make them scour the Internet for research and stuff 500 Swag bags, it builds character and it’s what makes them great and potential future employees. It is NOT, however, okay to ask them to do all of your work for you while you surf Facebook all day, or have them get your laundry, or help you pack your apartment {yes, I had someone ask me to do that}, you asked them to intern for your company, NOT be a personal assistant…those folks get paid out the WAZOOOO, and for good reason!!- most interns work for free.